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The pronouns that matter

Story • 14th Feb 2024 • 3 Min Read

The pronouns that matter

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Author: Alyssa Navarro Alyssa Navarro
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There are times when we misgender someone in the workplace. How can we prevent that and promote a culture of inclusiveness?

Society has conditioned most of us to use specific gender pronouns. For instance, it is socially expected that males use the “he/him” pronouns while females use “she/her” pronouns. However, sexual orientation, gender identity, and gender expression are much more different than that. 

Others identify as non-binary, which is an umbrella term for people who either identify as both male and female or reject the idea of binary genders at all. Non-binary people have identities outside the gender binary.

What are the pronouns used by non-binary people? They use gender-neutral pronouns such as “they/them.” According to YouGov America, about one-quarter of Americans personally know at least one person who goes by “they/them” instead of “he/him” or “she/her.”

READ MORE | How to create a diverse and equitable workplace

Why using the right pronouns matters in the workplace

In an interview with The Adecco Group, Roberto Andres Ampuero Nawrath, a non-binary activist, said that when someone uses the wrong pronouns, it can feel hurtful and embarrassing. 

Unfortunately, most cisgender hetero people, or people who identify with the sex and gender they were born into, do not understand how important it is to refer to someone using the right pronouns. Cisgender hetero people have the privilege of having their pronouns identified casually, but LGBTQIA+ people, particularly non-binary people, do not have that privilege.

READ MORE | How to inspire LGBTQ+ allyship in the workplace

That said, getting people’s pronouns right in the workplace is important for three reasons.

  1. We want to show respect for their identities. When we show basic respect, we also clarify that employee’s colleagues and clients.

  2. We want to ease the stress of non-binary people who get misidentified in the workplace. Non-binary people who get misgendered in the workplace experience higher levels of stress, which can cause a decrease in productivity and an increase in sick days.

  3. We want to follow laws that explicitly protect based on their gender identity. Some countries have laws that protect people, provided that they must be called by their correct pronoun and name regardless of whether a legal change of pronouns and name has been done.

Nawrath said it can feel great to work in a safe space where one feels respected. They said that regardless of the person’s intention, when someone misgenders you, it can feel demeaning and diminish a person’s identity.

READ MORE | The most underrepresented groups in Australian workplaces

How can you ask someone about their pronouns?

A person’s pronouns are not noticeable when you meet them for the first time or even when you’ve known each other for a long time. Moreover, it is not helpful to assume what they are. The best way to see another person’s pronouns is by first introducing yours and then asking them what theirs are.

Nawrath said that if the person gets confused by the question, you should tell them that you intend to refer to them correctly. They said that the question of gender pronouns should be built into daily life. 

The basic reason why we should use a person’s pronouns is to respect their gender identity and not make them feel humiliated. Doing this can promote inclusivity in the company and improve employee relations. 

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